It’s not envy; it’s absence

I am crying as I read this. Each and every word is so very true. It is just how one feels out and about. The pretending nothing is there so that you can just make it through the store for the loaf of bread and milk to get out before shedding a tear. The void. You are so excited on the inside to hear and see that child and it’s mother. To see the relationship they have and the joy. Hear the laughter in their voice. But then there is a void.
It has been nearly 2 years since I touched or held a child. That child was my own. I am not able to hold another one. I cannot replace the last memory I have of my child with another. That space is his and his alone. I am not strong enough. I just do not have the inner strength to change it.
Thank you for these words. I could never have expressed my feelings any better.


2 responses

  1. Oh, thank you for this. I’m deeply sorry for your pain, and just know that I so feel you, every word you’ve typed in response—it hurts so much, and there is just too much pain for us to bear sometimes. I’m going to start following your story now. xo

    March 5, 2014 at 2:04 pm

    • Jo

      Thank you that means a lot.

      March 5, 2014 at 3:20 pm

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